well, your energy needs to be focused outside, troubleshooting problems in order to vindicate your own existence. No, we do not want to “talk” as in just listen and reciprocate with empathy. Do you have any idea how pathetic that seems from our perspective? Tell us your problems and it is automatically implied that you are asking for a solution that will rid you of the problem. And we are dying to give it to you!
if you want a friend get a dog